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The truth behind the vanity numbers

It's easy to become fixated on accumulating followers, likes, and shares, email lists, etc. forgetting that behind each digital interaction lies a real person with their own unique experiences, hopes, and dreams.

In a world consumed by vanity metrics, it's time to reclaim the essence of genuine connection—one that transcends mere numbers and delves into the depths of heart and soul.

This past weekend, as I immersed myself in a gathering to commemorate a dear friend that recently passed, a serendipitous encounter reminded me of the true essence of connection.

I introduced myself to a new person at this get-together, and said “Hi I’m Tania, what’s your name” and she shared her name and said, "I'm on your email list."

But the magic didn't stop there. The very next day, as I embarked on a serene walk in nature, another encounter unfolded. A woman, with a warm and genuine demeanor, walked past me and I politely said hi and she responded "I get your weekly newsletter."

It was a moment of delightful serendipity—a reminder that our reach extends far beyond what we perceive.

Behind every open email, every responded message, and every watched video lies a person who has chosen to invest their precious time and attention in what we have to share.

In our quest for validation, it's easy to get caught up in the pursuit of vanity numbers—seeking higher follower counts, more likes, and a growing subscriber base.

However, let us not forget that these numbers represent individuals, each with their own stories, desires, and aspirations.

It's time to shift our perspective and recognize the immeasurable value of genuine human connection.

Today, I want to express my deepest gratitude to each and every one of you who reads my newsletters, responds to my emails, sends me DM’s and engages with my content.

Your presence in my life and community is a testament to the power of authentic connection.

A special thanks to Ambujara, Paige and Mary Jo who reached out and chose to interact with me this last week and let me know that I’m part of their lives somehow.

Let us cherish and honor these connections, transforming them into meaningful conversations—a two-way exchange of ideas, support, and inspiration.

In a world that often reduces us to numbers, we have the power to rise above and embrace the beauty of genuine human connection.

It's time to let go of the illusion that these vanity metrics define our worth and instead focus on the hearts and souls that reside behind each number. Each interaction has the potential to create a ripple effect—a positive impact that extends far beyond the digital realm.

To further explore the transformative power of connection, I am thrilled to announce that this week's episode on The Courage To Be Podcast™ features a captivating conversation with, the queen of networking, Val Romero, on fostering meaningful relationships.

Join us as we delve into the significance of cultivating deep connections and the profound returns they bring—both personally and professionally.

Was this a coincidence or all these things are happening because I’m on this vibrational frequency of connection?

Next Friday, June 2nd at 11:30 EST -1pm I will be hosting a truly special event—"Connections with Intention"—a gathering that celebrates the power of genuine human connection.

It’s FREE and there’s always a powerful diverse group of women that show up to these gatherings.

To secure your spot, simply register at and prepare to experience the magic of authentic connection, where we will learn, grow, and inspire one another.

Today I invite you to release the hold that vanity numbers have over us and instead embrace the true power of genuine human connection.

We are more than just numbers—we are individuals with unique stories, passions, and dreams.

Together, let us celebrate the immeasurable value of heart and soul, creating a ripple effect of profound impact and genuine connection in our lives and the lives of others.

To your abundance and success!


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